Friday, 9 December 2011

Here comes d fine line...when u r online....

We lives in INDIA...d DEMOCRATIC..INCREDIBLE INDIA. The act to do things freely is 1 of the fundamental joys of being part of a liberal democracy.With powerful technological platform and social networking sites such as FACEBOOK,even repressed societies get to savour unfettered expression.But ofcourse like a coin has 2 sides,there is also a flip side to such freedom. And this involves the need to respect the right of others not to be targets of hatred.
Minister of Communication n Information Technology 'Mr. KAPIL SIBAL' , appealed to internet giants Facebook,Google,Yahoo n Microsoft on Tuesday to regulate the content posted on websites. In the wake of certain derogatory defamatory and inflammatory content posted against religious figures and Indian leaders.
                       Individual cases of defamation or causing offence should indeed be dealt with by the courts of law,the same way that emotions spilling over on to the streets need to be contained by law and order forces.But there are cases - involving communal and inflammatory content that certainly have to be nipped in the bud. Posting a sentinel to check the enormous amount of user generated content emanating from a country the size of India,however is unfeasible. And taking on large parts of the internet its social networking sites or its search and query platforms serves little purpose.A networking site like Facebook has often been disparaged for its epic indifference to privacy. The need to curb inflammatory material is intrinsic to the need to speak freely.  A representation online or otherwise that is crass and in poor taste deserve to be ignored or criticised. But there are cases when preemption  that is before it comes, in the phraseology of the internet viral is required. The platform can come as a scanner themselves ,that would be take away the need for a government to be concerned. Banning something isn't finding its remedy.And the best advertisement for free speech is when offensive,incendiary outpouring are plucked out of the vocabulary as simple as that.. :)

Wednesday, 7 December 2011

"have I 4gotten to smile... :-) "

I Tried for hours.....
sitting in front of d mirror,,,,,
2 move these 14 muscles of my face in a way....
it would look like a 'smile'..


Did I really 4get to smile......
was there nothing left in my life???
that could make me smile???
no alleviation, no ecstasy, no fun,,, no glee...
or was it ME who 4got 2 realize....


The beauty of things n emotions....
d beauty of expressions,,,,,
d beauty of small beginnings.....
new hopes....


Have i really 4goton 2 sense????
the sweet sense of a rose....
or the serenity of d morning sun....


Am i totally plasticized by d responsibilities....
and d monotony of life.....??


In ol dese years...of running after life....
have i left my real self behind?
have i turned into some1 new???


I used 2 be,,i remember, a girl...who used 
2 rejoice...every moment she lived...
d girl who could dance to d tunes of rain.....
who could climb up a hill...
just 2 see d setting sun,,,,
climb down again 2 feel...
his waves beneath...


A Girl whose smile was as fresh as dew....
now I stand here..
trying to smileeeeee...
trying hard for those 14 muscles to move....
trying hard to unlearn things.....
that made me dull....
complicated my thoughts,,,,,,
and ruined my heart....


I want to smile not only vd my lips,,,,
which bare my teeth for sake of it,,,,
i want to smile vd all my face,,,,
with my heart and soul vd it... ;'(

Monday, 14 November 2011

We look at our mobiles before we brush our teeth,we tweet random strangers online..and create the illusion of conversation,and we believe the internet has fostered new friendships and equations that were never possible before.And yet,the basics have broken down, the sense of community,kinship and humaneness appears to have evaporated.More brutal than the murder is the image of the onlookers who refused to help.Are we awfully apathetic or brutalised into numbness???? or both???
        "KEENAN SANTOS" N "REUBEN FERNANDES"  who were stabbed to death for standing up to sexual abuse on the streets of Mumbai. They did what most of us do not do.They took a stand, they did not look away.And for doing the right thing- what should have been another evening out with friends ended up being the last day of their lives. When a bunch of mobsters and boors started heckling and pawning one of the girls in their group, Keenan and Reuben retaliated and stood up to the abuse. Within minutes the assaulters had knives and swords out and soon the boys were lying collapsed in pools of blood.
 It would not be unfair to say that more than the mob it was urban apathy that killed Keenan and Reuben.
The Keenan-Reuben murders have forced the ugly underbelly of modern urban lives into full public glare.The facts are so blazingly brutal that we cannot ignore what they say about us,even if we try. They have exposed the irony of how emotionally unconnected we are as people in an otherwise hyper connected age.
       The murders have also confronted us with how anachronistic the phrase we use to describe  sexual abuse is 'Eve teasing' is such a feeble little phrase.It fails to capture the intense invansion of space and privacy a woman feels when abused by men.
Most importantly,the murders have made us confront how we teach our daughters to accept sexual abuse as an  inevitable part of modern living.
   while we are disgusted with the bystanders who allowed Keenan and Reuben to die, as women we must ask ourselves : are we becoming inured to abuse????

Thursday, 3 November 2011

The  world  will change...
it will be new,,,,
now it's time 2...
believe in "YOU"

 It wont be d daily nagging....
2 see  yourself through....
neither will be d worry,,,,,
to clear d semester through......

The stage will be bigger,,,,,,
chances will be few.....
life will be long,,,,
the burden will be true.....

There wont be parents....
to sail you through...
the fields will be different.....
d attitude should be true....

There wont be any friend....
to share this work...4 you..
now it's the time 2 
believe in you,,,,,
The interest is the key....
so as not to flee....
the motion will decide....
which way it will be,,,,,,
The attitude will combat.....
the flunks in time,,,,
it will be the one.....
which will change your life.....
YOU have the toughness......
YOU have the view.....
now it's the time 2.......
believe...in "YOU"............

Monday, 19 September 2011

MIRAGE

As "I" gazed at my path,,,,,
immense greenery dazed me....
d depth of d woods...
d completeness of its each part,,,,,
boarded me to 7th sky,,,,,

a little dought lingered however.....
y did heaven's glory,,,,
so iternal,,,,so complete....
grew shallow vd my each,,,,
step 2wards it....!!!
a few steps....
blackened everything....
as MY DREAM,,,
MY HEAVEN,,,,
MY DESIRE.....

dissolved in d "MIRAGE"......

Tuesday, 30 August 2011

d vry frst time.......
i parted my entiwined lashes,,,,,
a huge space,,,,,,an open sky lmbibed in my eye.....

i thought i was free.....
geared up 4 a spree
bt i don knw,,,,,,,

wat ws entangled me,,,,,
i was condemned 2 be numb.....
but...............
i rebelled,,,
i placed
broke d lane..... i slewed..............
but........
d world couldnt bear....
i was made 2 shear.............

my DREAMS,,,
my ASPIRATIONS,,,,,
ol dat moment i sensed
something drenched up my eyes.....

i reckoned i was concrete....enough bt....
something in me was
,melting inside.............

i was conked out,,,,gave up ol my will,,,,
bt den der ws sum1....

who was d only streak of hope.....
of optimism,,,,,1's again...
he made my eyes gleam...
placed d smile,,,,
vanished d worry........

d water in d lashes was made
2 dry...he was d only 1
yes he was........
i fuddled my eyes 2 see....

d 1 who elevated me
bt murkiness was predominant
d clarity lacked
bat i surged ahead...

i went close...
i went near
in d rear i found a mirror
it was.......my WILL ,,,,,,,my STRENGTH....
which stood by me,,,,,
throughout d lenghth,,,,,
through ol d ups,,,,,
ol d downs......

i thought i was alone,,,,,
but.......................
my willnever parted
it persisted...
n..................
made ME persist.......!!!